One of my biggest beefs with society as a whole is the need for men and women to be sleek, sexy, and perfect all the time. Therefore, beautiful, big women are simply seen as fat.
One of the best presentations I've seen to address this issue is Fat Rant, a video I found on YouTube quite some time ago.
I also wrote my own response to this issue in Mookychick; it's the only piece I've ever written and received fan mail for.
My big question for the broader audience out there, i.e. you, is whether or not big girls can be beautiful, or if society is wrong by saying there's something wrong with everyone over a size 10.